Friends and/or Relationships

This idea for a post popped in my head randomly as I was walking from class the other day [actually some months ago… just never posted it lol]

You always hear that the best relationships come from friendship… lately I’ve been wondering if that is true or not. Many people know that I have never officially had a boyfriend, so I’m clearly not an expert on relationships. I have a lot of male friends, some I could NEVER picture myself with romantically. There are others who I wish would give me a chance in a relationship. Then I think ”hmmm. Is that the best idea?” What if our relationship doesn’t last? And let’s be real… I’m 20 yrs old in college [well im 21 now, but you get the point].. How many relationships last for a long time? My fear is after we have entered into a relationship and break up, will we be able to maintain that friendship that we had before?

The flip side of it is I don’t want to meet a new guy and get serious too soon. Most of the dudes I have talked to have asked me to be their girlfriend after a few days of knowing each other. Ive said no because I felt like we didn’t kno each other good enough to be “boyfriend/girlfriend”

How do you feel about getting into relationships with your friends?

HATING or MY OPINION?

People are throwing this word “hate” around too loosely now-a-days. There is a difference between my opinion on something and me hating on something. Jus because I don’t agree wit you, it doesn’t mean that I am a hater. I could say the same thing about you.
As most people kno, im not a Nicki Minaj fan. She irks the living daylight outta me. You’re not a Barbie so shut up. That MY OPINION. That’s not me hating on the girl. It would be hating if I said “Nicki Minaj is the worst rapper ever. She needs to fall off a cliff. She will never be successful in her career.”  THAT’S HATING. Mostly because there is a lie involved. Nicki Minaj is already having a more successful rap career than I will ever have in my life, and her first CD isn’t out. She’s on all the hot singles right now and I even kno some of her raps… I JUST DON’T LIKE THE GIRL. that doenst mean I am hating.
Another example is my dislike for the Lakers. First off im from PORTLAND, OREGON, therefore I was a Laker hater by birth. You can’t possibly be a Portland Trail Blazer fan and Lakers fan. Its jus impossible. By me saying I don’t like the Lakers, it doesn’t mean I am hating on the Lakers. I JUST DON’T LIKE THEM. How can I say they suck wen they have won numerous championships? That would be a lie… I jus don’t favor them.
Last example: I was watchin Bow Wow on Ustream (ya’ll kno I love me some Bow Wow) and people were saying reckless thing. One dude told him to shut up (how u gon go to HIS page and tell HIM to shut up. Just hit the lil red X in the corner idiot.) But ANYWAYS.. this one dude kept saying “no one cares wat u think u 5 hit wonder.” Now im wondering to myself “does he think before he types?” Even if it were true that Bow Wow is a 5 hit wonder, he STILL has more hits than you, while ur on the internet watching him… (examples of hits: Bounce With Me, Ghetto Girls, Puppy Love, My Baby, Shorty Like Mine, You Can Get it All, Pole in My Basement, Marco Polo, yada yada yada, u get the point). That is blatant HATE. If u don’t like him so, why are you wasting ur beautiful Sunday afternoon watchin him?
When someone hates on someone, it is usually based on some type of LIE that the HATER believes is TRUE.
But ive come to the conclusion that there is PURE HATERATION is some people’s blood, but we need to stop labeling everyone as a “hater” because of their opinion.
Moral of the blog: please learn how to differentiate HATING from OPINION
Happy Easter. & Remember Jesus is the REASON for the SEASON
=)

the Valentine's Day Blues....

Today was horrible. And idk why. It wasn’t supposed to end up this way… im not even really trippin because its Valentines Day and I don’t have a valentine.. I think it’s a lot of things built up that are makin me so angry/depressed/ emotional/overly-sensitive, etc.

1. People thinking im an idiot, saying stupid things to me, playing childish games… im 20 yrs old.. in college.. I don’t have time for stuff like that…

2. Wen I express myself on twitter, someone who is supposed to be my “best friend,” care about how im feeling, actually makes me feel worse than I originally feel. And wat makes it worse is he is givin all his love and attention to girls who could care less about him… u cant be my best friend only wen its convenient for u cuz its NOT gonna work that way.. no matter how much I love our friendship, I CANNOT/ WILL NOT allow u to hurt me.. ESPECIALLY publicly. Don’t be fake.. cuz if I told u how I was feelin and we were alone u would not have the same reaction.. u’d want me to feel better… all I want is for u to be the friend u are supposed to be..

3. Yes, it is Valentine’s Day… so maybe im a lil upset that im chillin in my room by myself… by the fact of the matter is my phone has not rung once today… no text… no fb message.. nothing… soooo no one loves me??? That’s my first and only thought.. from NO ONE.. not my mother, any of my best friends, friends, homies, associates, grandparents, aunt, father, sisters, brother… situations like this make me re-evaulate my life, like wat is wrong me ME?? and my saying of the say has seriously been “WTF…” cuz that’s wat I been thinking… WTF is the problem?? WTF did I do??? WTF why cant I be happy???

In all honestly im prob makin this a bigger situation than it has to be but right now this is how I am feeling… like crap… ugh I jus don’t know at else to say…

Hope everyone else had a Happy Valentine’s Day tho =) [no sarcasm.. I hope no one felt like I felt today]

Strawberry...

This is one my favorite poems that I've ever written so I posting it to share. I wrote it for school about 2 yrs ago.. ENJOY =)




Strawberries.
Chocolate.
Who ever would think to put the two together?
The first: a fruit,
A healthy little snack.
The latter: delectable goodness,
A snack made for royalty.
Together: Heavenly goodness
The bright red of the strawberry appears to be fire
Extinguish that fire.
Your extinguisher?
Why the chocolate, of course.
Now, Chocolate slowly dripping from the tip of the strawberry
Dripping.
Dripping.
Dripping.
Small strawberries.
Big strawberries.
White chocolate.
Milk chocolate.
Dark chocolate.
No matter what the combination,
You are guaranteed satisfaction.
A tasty snack in the morning to jump start the day?
Or do you prefer this mouth-watering dessert right before bed?
Alone or with a lover?
No matter what,
You are guaranteed satisfaction.
That first bite
So succulent.
So juicy.
Most of the chocolate is gone now
Leaving that blood red center
Just staring you in the face.
Another bite or two and it is done.
Your taste buds are loving you right now.
You gave them the best present of the year.
The one that was perfect in every way.

The Thoughts Behind "No Questions Asked"

Well, I've wanted create a blog for some time, but I've never gotten around to it. I always have these random thoughts in my head that I want to release, but Facebook isn't the place, and Twitter doesn't give me enough characters, so here I am...

The name "No Questions Asked" came to me while I was taking a shower today and thinking of what I wanted to name my blog. To me it means this is a place where I can write what I chose and no one will QUESTION me. That doesn't mean you cant ask me a question or comment on my blog... I just will have to right to decide if I actually want to answer your question =) lol.

My blog username is "DeepThoughts." I tried thinking all day of a good username but couldnt think of anything that really fit me, then DeepThoughts just popped in my head and it felt perfect. I over think EVERYTHING, therefore I am now DeepThoughts lol.

Well I don't want to write too much in my first post... just a little introduction. Feel free to comment... Later for now =)


P.S. For the record this will probably be my first AND last blog where i try to type with good punctuation and spelling. It is just too hard and takes too long to do lol.